It is an empowering belief that people are whole and just exactly right.
On an existential level, their entire life is exactly what they went to enormous effort to create. This is their creation to experience.
How astonishingly arrogant of me to assume there is something wrong with them or their life!
I have no need or right to go in and try to change things for them.
On the contrary this is an opportunity for me to admire how completely and excellently they created their world.
Does this mean that I never help or support another person? Of course not.
They are in my life for my experience. I can offer any sort of support that I choose to, to create my experience. I just need to remember that I am doing it for me, because I wish to support and not because they are broken.
Also, I can only offer it.
I cannot force them to change in anyway.
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